Ok i got into this discussion with some friends and i thought i should get your views!
Is is okay to share family secrets/ squabbles amongst ur siblings with your spouse??? That is letting him/her know everything that goes on in your respective families including disagreements???? Pls ur comments will be highly appreciated!
Thanks.
i will speak from my single girl opinion(if u get wat i mean'wink') i wont discuss my family issues but will def discuss the success of my family with my BF, my mum use to say the way you start with him is same way he continues with u . Men dont change 'its not in their nature to handle some sensitive stories abt ur siblings for instance how can i possibly tell my man that my brother is a thief,there are some issues that is best kept within ur immediate family member biko.
ReplyDeleteU should know d man in question.Tell him what he can Contain.Some Men would Use it to abuse,ridicule,and demean Ur family @ d slightest provocation. Wisdom!!!
ReplyDeleteAll families have their different issues, so how much you should tell your man is an individual thing . You should study the man u re married to some men the things you consider to be a major or dirty secret may not mean that way to them so i think its an individual thing
ReplyDeleteTrust is really a vital key! so,before u discuss some certain secrets abt ur siblings or family 2 ur spouse,u shuld knw d level of confidence u hv in him/her...der ar pple who can't kip secrets,to me it's rilly nt bad 2 discuss smtin dat concerns ur family 2 ur spouse..bcos if he/she hears it outside it becomes a problem automatically.
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