Food for thoughts!!!!
The society we live in is quick to judge Single ladies who are 30 and above!!!
Often times they are looked at being single as a result of lack of right manners or attitude, or even being too choosy that is wanting to settle with a wealthy man.
Being a woman, i know no lady would choose to be single especially at a certain age. Some ladies out there really go through alot.
I heard a story of a lady who fell in love with an unemployed guy and she stays with this guy for another 3yrs believing he'll get a job and they'll settle down eventually despite she battling with his constant jelousy, inferiority complex and short temper borne out of lack of finances. His attitude gets worse by day because the jobs are not forth coming and she eventually decides to take a walk. Rightnow shez in her 30's and confused because the society we live is too quick to judge.
Would you advise her to go back to such a relationship and continue being with guy???
No way, she should move on, she will definitely get a man that will appreciate her some day.
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My opinion on the matter is...she should be selfish enough as to do what makes her happy firstly and not think about people judging her. It doesn't matter if a lady is in her 20ies,30ies or 50ies,once ur in a wrong relationship it eats your whole being like a virus. Get out while you can. She will meet the man that is right for her. Ngo.
ReplyDeleteNo. She can't go on trying to put up with the guy because no matter how faithful and good she may be, he ll keep being who he is. Its just inferiority complex . Chichi
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